4 great tips for supporting children with Autism
In this article I will detail four wonderful and empowering tips that will support parents of the special children with Autism and other associated challenges to embrace their experience and realise “AWESOMISM”.
Step 1: Be curious about your child, instead of constantly looking for and finding all the things that are not typical about them.
So you would say “wow that behaviour is really different, can you show me something about it, or tell me something about it”.
Amazingly with the energy of curiosity rather than of labels and judgement, a new path opens that allows information to be revealed.
Step 2: Step back and give yourself open space to feel into your child and the situation you find yourself in.
You see when you want things to be fixed, or different to the way they are, you have a tendency to get on a treadmill that has you continuously looking outside yourself, for someone else to find the answer! If you just take a pause and just watch your kids with curiosity and presence you can stop this cycle…. remember “that which we resists persists” and “a problem is never solved with the same mind that created it!”
So try this out….Just BE with your child, watch them. In this presence you will get a breather, time to take a deep breath. When you are in this moment you can take it a bit further, start looking inside yourself and figuring out how you really feel about the situation you are experiencing, instead of being told how it is and being sent from one person to another. Ask yourself does it feel good to be with your child in each situation that comes up. Right here is the beginning of the conversation and communication between you and your child, your higher self and their higher self – profound parenting starts here…
A Little exercise:
So just stop for a few moments and take a breather…. watch yourself and your child, be present.
So how do you feel being with your child in a space of acceptance? Good?
Now how do you feel when you come out of a doctor’s appointment? Do you feel disempowered, like your life force has been taken away from you?
Which path do you think you should be pursuing?? Its obvious isn’t it?
Step 3: Change your perception from being burdened, to having a gift that you and your child has chosen!
The special children have a contract to be as they are and their parents have accepted a contract to be with them and learn from them!
Parents of special children are constantly toled that there is something wrong with their genes or the way they carried and/or raised their children and that they are somehow responsible for the problem.
This is a heavy burden and energy to carry….. So cosider this approach versus another viewpont…
A viewpoint that suggests that – As a parent you have NOT been burdened by this child, rather you SIGNED UP for a fast track to learn a new way to be in the world. To really “know” this experience on a grand scale and potential that humanity has, at this stage signed up for this gift. An understanding that your child is supporting this whole process.
A shift in your perception will change everything for you and your child!! You will find yourself thinking…
“yeah I did sign up for this, and now I am actually interested and curious about my child, maybe I don’t have to look at my child as having a disorder, rather maybe I am ready to be present and learn what my child is all about”
Step 4: Get over the idea of having to be normal and accept that your child is just special!
Some humans are extra unique, they are the bringers of the new dawn to Earth and Humanity, embrace it!
The truth is we are all special and unique – and the very thing that stands in the way of this is our need to be typical, normal and fit in! It is our absolute uniqueness that makes us brilliant in the world.
The wonderful thing about this the Special Children is that they are absolutely going to be different and nothing can make them fit into the “normal” box. They are teaching us how to truly BE in our own specialness and brilliance! How wonderful is that!
How do you communicate with your kids?
Children with autism, say they are in the space in between. They are never not communicating, they are communicating in the space in between. The more energetic multi-dimensional space.
So as parents and communities we need to learn how to connect to the space in between.
Often times parents of these special children, have been psychically open as children and shut down their gifts/abilities. So here comes their kids wearing this banner, forcing them to open these gifts up again to communicate to them. How wonderful!
The children will not change – the parents need to connect to them and enjoy the journey they have contracted to take with their child.
It is really fantastic for communities to get involved on this level also.
These children understand and resonate very strongly with living light language (such as the Celestial Resonance Light Language Song that I channel see to experience this and share it with your child… see what happens!). The children are greatly supported by these frequencies in their healing and their ability to fully embody. Their parents are greatly supported to shift their perceptions and re-unite with their children on a new level.
Remember everybody – can open to their own light language, if they let themselves get out of the way and allow it to flow. So if you are a parent of a special child, perhaps it is worth looking into this path.
A parent or loved one of a special child? Where to from here?
Visit www.suzymiller.com to learn more about AWESOMISM and enjoy her free workshops and support groups, as well as her amazing pograms such as: the Awesomism Empowered Parent Program and the Awesomism Certification Process!
I am also available for Mentorship Programs – that will support you and your child to shift your perceptions and connect on a deeper level. I work with my light language and lightbody healing work to support you on this level with great effect!
CLICK THIS LINK to listen to the entire “Communication: Heart to Heart” radio broadcast… aired on October 05, 2010 it is listed in the On Demand Episodes section.
My heart to yours, my soul to yours,
Keeping it REAL Always
Kyrona Unity Hope